Getting married to the love of your life is one of the most exciting experiences you'll ever have, but preparing for it isn't exactly a piece of cake. Before you can walk down the aisle and say “I do”, you first have to take lots of important steps to put your wedding together and ensure it will be a success. One thing you should do is to ask yourself these key questions:
Do you have enough funds?
Thinking about money matters might feel wrong and/or seem like an anticlimax. After all, getting married isn't about making financial transactions; it's about committing the rest of your life your sweetheart and celebrating your love for each other!
But you have to admit that getting wed comes with a truckload of expenses. For one thing, you'll need to go shopping for gorgeous engagement rings (แหวนหมั้น) that you and your darling will love. You also have to hire professional caterers, florists, tailors, entertainers, hairstylists, makeup artists, venue decorators and other experts who'll help you organise your big day. Of course, you'll need to purchase your outfit and shop for invitation cards, wedding favours and gifts for your bridal party.
So, if you don't want to end up knee-deep in debt, check your finances before popping the question and ensure they're enough to cover all the expenses. If they're not, you need to raise more funds (such as by doing freelance jobs during your free time, setting up a side business and saving more of your salary) and find ways to reduce your wedding costs.
How will you pop the question?
The answer to this depends entirely on you. You can choose to buy a couple of pretty engagement rings (แหวนหมั้น) beforehand, or you can opt to skip these jewellery and shop for them later with your sweetheart.
The proposal method you'll use also depends on your personality as well as the interests you share with your darling. If she loves going to football games, for example, why not propose to her while watching the Champions League finals? If she likes skiing, pop the big question while you're holidaying in the Alps and enjoying the crisp, cool air.
What should you do to prepare for your big day?
By now, you probably know that organising a wedding requires you to tackle hundreds of tasks. These can seem overwhelming at first, but you can fortunately accomplish them by taking things one step at a time.
You can start by deciding what you'll wear on your big day. If you're a butch woman who'd like to wear a suit, the best thing you can do is to call us here at The Butch Clothing Company. We offer professional suit designing and tailoring services and can help you obtain an attractive and stylish outfit that fits you perfectly and reflects your personality. Just tell us what your needs and ideas are, and we'll help you bring your dream suit to life.
Aside from ordering your outfit, you also have to tackle the following tasks:
- Finding a venue that matches your wedding theme and fits your budget.
- Asking if the venue provider will take care of the decorations or if you have to decorate the place on your own.
- Buying invitations and sending them to your guests with the correct time, date and venue of your event.
- Looking for a caterer who'll provide you and your guests with mouthwatering food and refreshing drinks.
- Hiring an entertainer who'll keep your guests amused and occupied and make your reception fun and memorable.
Keep these tips in mind and use them as a guide in your journey to matrimony!